In this time and age, many awakened people would rather be alone than to tolerate somebody's rude behaviour, self centredness or lack of integrity.
Such people can be painfully and successfully said to have completed their inner work to enjoy their own company and as a result, attain some degree of autonomy over their lives.
In fact,
World would be a far better place if all the people stopped tolerating other people out of loneliness, need for social acceptance, human desire to connect etc.
Like it or not every person will like you or hate you based upon their self interests. If there is something to be gained from you, even it be a small piece of valuable information, suggestion or advice, they will like you.
It takes a lot to escape other peoples grip, i.e. the grip they have on our lives, especially when all they have to offer us is unnecessary stress and negativity. We didn't ask for it and inevitably, we find ourselves among all sorts of people in our lives, jobs, business, career or society.
Hence, the need for healthy boundaries with everyone without exceptions.
The practice of humanity comes a lot later and only after we have successfully mastered the art of boundaries with everyone. Learning to stay away from people we don't like, learning to say 'No' when we intend to say 'No', and To prioritize and protect our peace and well-being at all costs, at all times.
World can be a lot better if everyone maintained such high standards.
Hope this helps !
Cheers !! 😇
- Anuj Chugh
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